Coaching
The Journey
I could tell you how I’ve been engaged in this work in my 20 years of leading non-profit organizations, mentoring high performing teams and building strategic plans… (you get the point) —
But truthfully…
I’ve been seen as a source of compassionate support, coaching and mentorship since I was in the sixth grade.
(My teacher even sent me a long email to remind me of this when he retired!)
And if there’s anything I’ve learned from making the mistake of seeking self-worth outside of myself (and burning out on repeat), resisting conventional ideas around self-care and finally connecting my head to my heart, it’s this:
True, powerful transformation is not a linear process.
I know because I’ve grappled with *and* supported women through:
- Learning how to prioritize yourself (3 years of journal entries saying: “I’m exhausted” were my own lightbulb moments along the way)
- Establishing strong boundaries (the kind you’d fall on your sword to protect)
- Taking big, brave steps forward (like ditching a job that leaves you unfulfilled and out of alignment with your values even though it paid well)
And just like you, I know how hard it can be to get stuck in the “doing”…
Instead of simply “being” — and creating intentional space to go within so we can release our attachments to outcomes.
Cultivating Curiousity
For years on end, I equated my self worth with achievements, awards and accomplishments…
And on the outside, it seemed pretty perfect.
Leading organizations. Speaking on stages. Working my way through industry events. Volunteering, networking and connecting.
When I look back at photos of *that* Jen, it’s so clear that I had fooled everyone — including myself.
But if I look a little closer, it was clear that the light in her eyes had dimmed and fizzled out a long time ago.
She was tired of the hustling for her self worth. She wasn’t making any time for herself. She was unhappy. And most importantly, she was disconnected from who she really was at a core level.
So, when I started questioning the validity of the stories rooted in my mind of who I was and what was *really* possible for me…
I *finally* stopped doing.
And I took small, brave steps towards cultivating curiosity about what could be possible for me if I started listening to my heart.
Step by Step…
Step by step, I realized that…
Now, as a leadership, life, and career coach to women who want to show up differently in the world…
- Burnout and depletion were warning signs that were, in actuality, saying: “You’re exhausted.”
- Fear of quitting jobs that weren’t in alignment with my values was really saying: “There’s a better way to make an impact.”
- Divorce and motherhood were saying: “It’s time to reconsider how you *really* want to show up for yourself and others but with Big Love.”
My purpose is to help you take your *own* unique steps with bravery while helping you get to where you want to be a little quicker, whether that’s about how you lead at work or live your life.
Brave Connectedness
If I had only learned that the key to fulfilment was to stop doing and start listening within, it wouldn’t have taken me this long to get here.
In fact, it’s a *lot* easier when you have an assertive nurturer by your side coaching you every step of the way, which is where I come into the picture — connecting you to your highest potential and the opportunities you need to get you there. Ever heard “you can’t become yourself, by yourself?”
After almost two decades of helping advance the needs of women, children and their collective healthcare — I believe that significant impact begins with sparking change within the individual.
But you need more than a coach to activate real change.
That’s why I serve women as a leadership and career coach *and* thought partner, creative strategist, co-creator and conscious connector, so they can prioritize themselves to lead their lives — and others — with bravery and confidence.
So if you feel that *something* needs to shift within — and you’re tired of living out of alignment with who you really want to be…
My approach to coaching leads with this crucial guarantee: I will challenge you to show up for yourself and others with Brave Connectedness™.
Brave Connectedness™ in your life, your work and your relationships with others means overcoming fear and the stories we’ve held onto, so that you can move forward with confidence, expanded self- compassion and a more grounded sense of self.
As your coach, I ground our
work together in the belief that:
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You Are Ready for Change
When we collaborate and co-create, you are courageously acknowledging that you want to dedicate time to growing, elevating and reaching your most profound impact as a human being.
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You Are Willing to Get Uncomfortable
We can choose to contract into fear and scarcity, or we can expand into power and possibility — and I know doing the latter is a lot harder when you’re navigating it alone. That’s why I’m here to support you.
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You Know This Work Takes Time
I wish I could say that two sessions together would lead to immediate transformation, but as you likely know by now, that path is not linear. There are no quick fixes; however, having the willingness to lean in and embrace self-worth will set you up to be the kind of leader and human, you know you’re capable of being.
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You Want to See Yourself Differently
Connecting deeply with yourself can be both empowering and confronting. For us to help you get to where you want to be, having the bravery to acknowledge your highest potential as a leader is key to activating your success.
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You Are Ready to Write a New Story
In order to cultivate belief in yourself, we have to take on the deep work of revisiting old beliefs that have been holding you back — and having a heart-to-heart with your inner critic is one of the *bravest* things you’ll ever do.
We’re in this Together
The belief I have in you starts right now — and when you feel ready to slowly wade (let’s be real, no one really dives in!) into the world of courageously connecting with yourself, I hope to help YOU reach your ultimate goal: prioritizing how you lead yourself, your life and others…
Because when we transform as women, we have the capacity to create an even more meaningful impact both personally and professionally.